Middle-Aged Woman's Notes

Personality can not be self-sufficient without addressing
their desires and needs, they varied in different periods of life.
When we are small, our needs and desires change as often and they are so diverse that even the best parents can not meet them all.
Not satisfy the desires of a child are the so-called children's injuries. They necessarily affect adult life, even if it is - just not the birthday present you have ever wanted.
I'm not talking about the tragedies in the children's fate - the loss of a parent or a divorce, poor living conditions and violence. Such injuries can turn and change forever the fate.
Throughout his adult life, we are trying to somehow heal the wounds of childhood.
We are looking for ways to meet our needs and desires.
At heart, we hope that we can find someone who can help us heal.
Of course, that our demands for the partner does not end just there. How do I find the only one who will make you happy. How not to be mistaken?
Why are people who fall in love bezoglyadochno at first sight, but there are those who have urovnoveshennaya friendship is the basis for living together.
By answering these questions, perhaps we can understand hidden from us the law of nature that lies at the heart of choosing a partner for life together.

In my opinion, interesting theory that we unconsciously choose a partner for procreation.
This is just a primitive brain.
A man chooses a woman to clean skin, bushy hair, expressive eyes, good physique, wide hips, red lips and rosy cheeks. All these external qualities, by the way not related to fashion and beauty are signs of health. They say that the woman is ready for its main purpose - procreation.
You say, what stupidity, what makes for good physique?
And that means that a reasonable man - nothing more than a male mammal, which is looking for a female to give birth and nursing offspring. Roughly? Perhaps, but it's something to aspire to evolution - procreation. This instinct was formed over the centuries and now there is no reason that it would not be a basis for finding a partner for life together.
You say, what about homosexual partners?
What is it instinct?
The fact of the matter is that this is not the only criterion by which we choose with whom to share his own bed, food and shelter.

And what about the woman? What are the criteria put forward our instincts towards man - as a successor order.
A man need not be physically fit and young for the production of offspring. Much more important to the basic qualities - the ability to provide for their families and to create conditions for rearing.

I am sure that many indignant that approach, but if we put aside the emotions, all it is. Decisive role in choosing a partner is a woman's appearance and social status of men. Do not be afraid to repeat, but not only ...
Notions of beauty and level of social status and are relative to different time periods of history have a different meaning.
Remember the fashion of richly-telyh beautiful women in the early 20th century. Fashion, as is well known variable, but always remain attractive health and youth. Now nobody cares about the title of a potential partner. No one is interested, he count, duke or commoner. Woman looking for man of the 21st century a reliable and responsible for the family.

Another not unimportant detail. "As I look at his background?" That is how a potential partner is able to promote my self-assertion and self-expression.

Perhaps these theories can explain something, but ... how to choose that one, which I'll be happy and attain himself.
First of all, I think is to understand what I need for happiness. Check out here .

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